remember the vows…

HesronAku tidak menyukai istriku lagi !
                     (I do not love my wife anymore!)
Zadrak : Pulang dan cintailah dia !
                     (Go home, and love her!)

Hesron : Anda tidak mengerti aku, aku sudah tidak punya perasaan itu lagi.
                     (You don’t understand , I don’t have that kind of feeling anymore.)
Zadrak : Pulang dan cintailah dia
                     (Go home, and love her.)
Hesron : Tetapi secara emosi aku berarti tidak jujur kalau aku memperlakukan istriku seperti itu, padahal aku tidak merasakannya.
(But it means I’m not honest to her.)
Zadrak : Apakah menurutmu ibumu mencintaimu?
(Do you think your mother love you?)
Hesron : Tentu saja ( dengan mantap )
               (Yes, of course.)
Zadrak : Kira-kira 1 minggu setelah ibumu pulang dari RS dan membawamu pulang, dan kamu menangis menjerit-jerit ditengah malam karena popokmu basah dan dia terpaksa bangun walau tubuhnya masih sangat letih, berjalan dilantai yang dingin tanpa alas kaki untuk mengganti popokmu dan menyusuimu. Apakah menurutmu dia sungguh-sungguh menikmati itu semua ?
(At the time, after you were born, a week later your mother taking you home. You were crying all night long because of wet diapers so she forced to wake up even she’s tired, walked on cold floor to change your diapers and feed you. Do you think that she truly enjoy them all?)
Hesron : Tidak ( menunduk )
                  (No)
Zadrak : Kalau begitu. Apakah ibumu secara emosi juga tidak jujur ?
(Then, do you think your mother emotionally being not honest?)

Pernikahan tidak hanya didasari perasaan CINTA, lebih dari itu yaitu KOMITMEN.
Marriage is not only based on LOVE, but more than that it is about COMMITMENT.

Saat pertama kali seseorang menikahi istrinya pasti karena cinta, tetapi cinta yang menggebu-gebu akan padam seiring dengan berjalannya waktu. Hanya Komitmen yang membuat cinta menggebu-gebu menjadi cinta yang matang dan dewasa.
When the first time a man married his wife, it is because Love. But love will be lost anytime through any hard situations. Only Commitment, which can make a passionate Love being a mature love.

~ Love is a feeling, and feeling can change anytime of some reasons. But commitment can save a marriage through circumstances (as the vow), cause marriage is a gift from God. ~

 

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